What is the most important relationship in your life ?

What is the most important relationship in your life ?

Some of you will say it’s your relationship with your parents

For some, it will be your relationship with your spouse

And for some, it will be your relationship with your children

And all of you are right

But…

I believe that the most important relationship is with YOURSELF first

Because if your relationship with your own self is fractured, then everything around you starts falling apart

You see….

All your upbringing, education and experiences condition you to put yourself way BACK in the priority list

You are made to believe that you have responsibilities towards everyone and in the bargain, you forget your responsibility towards your OWN SELF

You almost end up believing that you are NOT the priority

And you live your life with that belief and keep yourself on the backburner

You bottle up all your emotions

You keep your heart closed off

You hide all your fears

Your put a lid on all your dreams and desires

Because, you are NEVER a priority

That’s the bitter truth

And…

You try to show up a brave front to the world

You try to show as if everything is under control

But deep inside, you know that you are NOT living the life which you truly deserve

You deserve better

You want to do so much more in life

You have made so many sacrifices in life for others, always putting their needs ahead of yours

You deserve so much more

YOU DESERVE THE BEST

Because….

You are worthy

You are complete

You are unique

You are powerful

Anyways, let bygones be bygones – you can always make a fresh start, a new beginning

Remember….

The path to true freedom, success and abundance starts when YOU HEAL YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOURSELF FIRST

Because the truth is….

No matter where you start, all roads lead back to YOURSELF

So today I invite you to….

Celebrate yourself

Love yourself

Say YES to yourself

Put yourself back on the priority list

Embrace your dreams and desires

Are you ready for it ?

And if you are, here’s a small reflective exercise for you

1. On a scale of 1-10, how would you rate your relationship with your own self ? Dig deeper, but be true to yourself 
2. On a scale of 1-10, what would you want your relationship with your own self to be ? 
3. What can you do to heal your relationship with your own self ? Complete the following sentences as a guide

In order to heal my relationship with my self, I will_____________________________

I will celebrate myself by_____________________________________

I will say YES to myself by____________________________________

I would be interested to know what came up for you as you read and reflected on this email

Do share your thoughts and feedback 

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